Relative Pronouns in Spanish: A2 Grammar Guide

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Key Takeaways

  • Master the main relative pronouns que, quien, el que, and lo que
  • Understand when to use each relative pronoun based on context and meaning
  • Learn how relative pronouns connect sentences and avoid repetition
  • Practice creating complex sentences by joining ideas with relative pronouns
  • Master the agreement rules for relative pronouns with their antecedents

Connect Your Ideas Like a Native Speaker

Relative pronouns are the glue that holds complex sentences together in Spanish. They allow you to combine simple sentences into more sophisticated ones, making your Spanish sound more fluent and natural. Think of them as the Spanish equivalents of “who,” “whom,” “which,” “that,” and “what” in English.

What are Relative Pronouns?

Relative pronouns introduce relative clauses – parts of a sentence that give more information about a noun (the antecedent). They connect two related ideas into one sentence.

Simple Sentences:Combined with Relative Pronoun:
“Tengo un amigo. Él habla tres idiomas.”“Tengo un amigo que habla tres idiomas.”
“Compré el libro. El libro está en la mesa.”“Compré el libro que está en la mesa.”

The Main Relative Pronouns

Essential Relative Pronouns

PronounUse ForEnglish EquivalentExample
QuePeople and things (most common)who, whom, that, whichEl hombre que vino ayer (The man who came yesterday)
Quien/QuienesPeople only (more formal)who, whomLa señora quien me ayudó (The lady who helped me)
El que/La que/Los que/Las quePeople and things (specific)the one who, the one thatPrefiero el que tiene ventanas (I prefer the one that has windows)
Lo queIdeas, concepts, entire situationswhat, that whichNo entiendo lo que dices (I don’t understand what you’re saying)
Table: Spanish Essential Relative Pronouns and Their Uses

💡 Grammar Tip: Que is the most versatile and commonly used relative pronoun. When in doubt, you can often use “que” and be understood.

When to Use Each Relative Pronoun

Use QUE when:

  • Referring to people OR things
  • In everyday, informal speech
  • No preposition is involved
  • Examples:
    • “El libro que leí” (The book that I read)
    • “La mujer que canta” (The woman who sings)

Use QUIEN when:

  • Referring only to people
  • After prepositions (a, con, de, para, etc.)
  • In more formal contexts
  • Examples:
    • “El señor con quien trabajo” (The man with whom I work)
    • “La persona para quien compré el regalo” (The person for whom I bought the gift)

Use EL QUE/LA QUE when:

  • You need to be very specific
  • Emphasizing “the one who/that”
  • After prepositions (alternative to quien)
  • Examples:
    • “Prefiero la que es más grande” (I prefer the one that is bigger)
    • “El chico con el que estudio” (The boy with whom I study)

Use LO QUE when:

  • Referring to ideas, concepts, or entire situations
  • Meaning “what” or “that which”
  • No specific antecedent
  • Examples:
    • Lo que dices es importante” (What you say is important)
    • “No me gusta lo que pasó” (I don’t like what happened)

Agreement Rules

El que/La que/Los que/Las que must agree with their antecedent in gender and number:

AntecedentCorrect FormExample
Masculine singularel queEl coche el que compré
Feminine singularla queLa casa la que vi
Masculine plurallos queLos libros los que leí
Feminine plurallas queLas mesas las que vendí

Putting It All Together: Real Examples

Conversation 1: Describing People
Ana: ¿Conoces al hombre que trabaja en la oficina nueva?
Carlos: Sí, es la persona con quien tengo la reunión mañana.
Ana: ¿Es el señor el que siempre llega temprano?
Carlos: Exacto. Es muy profesional, lo que me gusta mucho.

Translation:
Ana: Do you know the man who works in the new office?
Carlos: Yes, he’s the person with whom I have a meeting tomorrow.
Ana: Is he the gentleman who always arrives early?
Carlos: Exactly. He’s very professional, which I like a lot.

Conversation 2: Shopping Decisions
Cliente: Busco un vestido que sea elegante pero cómodo.
Vendedor: Tenemos varios que podrían gustarle. ¿Prefiere los que son de algodón o las que son de seda?
Cliente: Me gusta lo que me muestra. Probarme el que tiene flores.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  1. Using “que” after prepositions: “La mujer con que hablé” (awkward) → “La mujer con quien hablé” (better)
  2. Wrong agreement: “Las mesas el que compré” (wrong) → “Las mesas las que compré” (correct)
  3. Confusing “que” and “qué”: “No sé que quieres” (wrong) → “No sé lo que quieres” (correct)
  4. Overusing “quien”: In everyday speech, “que” is more natural for people
  5. Missing the antecedent: Make sure it’s clear what the relative pronoun refers to

Quick Reference Chart

SituationBest ChoiceAlternative
People (no preposition)quequien
Things (no preposition)queel que/la que
People (with preposition)quienel que/la que
Things (with preposition)el que/la que(no alternative)
Ideas/conceptslo que(no alternative)
Specific “the one who”el que/la que/los que/las queque

Practice Exercise: Choose the Correct Pronoun

Choose the correct relative pronoun:

  1. El libro ______ (that) leíste es interesante.
  2. La señora con ______ (whom) trabajo es muy amable.
  3. No entiendo ______ (what) quieres decir.
  4. Prefiero la casa ______ (that) tiene jardín.

Answers:

  1. que
  2. quien
  3. lo que
  4. que (or la que for emphasis)

📚 Build on your knowledge: Review Direct and Indirect Object Pronouns

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