Formal Commands in Spanish: A2 Grammar Guide

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Key Takeaways

  • Master the conjugation rules for formal commands (usted/ustedes)
  • Learn how to form both affirmative and negative formal commands
  • Understand when to use formal vs. informal commands in different situations
  • Practice giving polite instructions, making requests, and offering suggestions
  • Learn pronoun placement with formal commands in different contexts

Communicate with Respect and Politeness

Formal commands are essential for showing respect when speaking to strangers, elders, professionals, or anyone you address as “usted” or “ustedes.” Whether you’re in a business meeting, speaking with customer service, or showing respect to someone, these commands help you communicate politely and effectively in formal situations.

When to Use Formal Commands (Cuándo Usarlos)

Use formal commands for:

  • ✅ Respectful Requests: Speaking to someone older or in authority
  • ✅ Professional Settings: Business meetings, customer service, formal events
  • ✅ Strangers: People you don’t know well
  • ✅ Multiple People: Using “ustedes” for groups (used in most Spanish-speaking countries)

Forming Formal Commands (Cómo Formar los Mandatos Formales)

Verb TypeUsted RuleUstedes RuleExample (Usted)Translation
-AR VerbsUse -e endingUse -en endingHable más despacio.Speak more slowly.
-ER VerbsUse -a endingUse -an endingComa su comida.Eat your food.
-IR VerbsUse -a endingUse -an endingViva su vida.Live your life.
Table: Regular Formal Commands in Spanish – The polite way to give instructions

💡 Grammar Tip: For usted, take the yo form present tense, drop the -o, and add the opposite ending. For ustedes, add -n to the usted form.

Affirmative vs. Negative Formal Commands

The same forms work for both affirmative and negative commands:

SituationUsted CommandUstedes Command
AffirmativeHable aquí. (Speak here.)Hablen aquí. (Speak here.)
NegativeNo hable aquí. (Don’t speak here.)No hablen aquí. (Don’t speak here.)

Common Irregular Formal Commands

InfinitiveUsted CommandUstedes CommandExample Sentence
Darden me el documento. (Give me the document.)
EstarestéesténEsté tranquilo. (Be calm.)
IrvayavayanVaya a la oficina. (Go to the office.)
SabersepasepanSepa que lo apreciamos. (Know that we appreciate you.)
SerseaseanSea puntual. (Be punctual.)
HaberhayahayanHaya silencio. (Let there be silence.)
Table: Essential Irregular Formal Commands in Spanish – Same for affirmative and negative

🔍 Grammar Focus: Notice that many irregular formal commands look similar to the present subjunctive forms. This is because they follow the same conjugation patterns!

Stem-Changing and Spelling Change Verbs

Stem-changing verbs maintain their changes in formal commands:

  • pensar: Piense (Think)
  • volver: Vuelva (Return)
  • pedir: Pida (Ask for)

Spelling change verbs maintain their changes:

  • buscar: Busque (Look for)
  • llegar: Llegue (Arrive)
  • proteger: Proteja (Protect)

Pronoun Placement with Formal Commands

With Affirmative Commands: Attach pronouns to the end

  • “Tell me” → Dígame
  • “Buy it” → Cómprelo
  • “Give it to me” → Démelo

With Negative Commands: Place pronouns before the verb

  • “Don’t tell me” → No me diga
  • “Don’t buy it” → No lo compre
  • “Don’t give it to me” → No me lo dé

Putting It All Together: Real-World Scenarios

Scenario 1: Business Meeting
Jefe: Por favor, revise estos documentos. Envíeme un email con sus comentarios.
Empleado: Claro, señor. ¿Firme aquí?
Jefe: Sí, firme en la línea punteada. No se preocupe por los detalles.

Translation:
Boss: Please review these documents. Send me an email with your comments.
Employee: Of course, sir. Should I sign here?
Boss: Yes, sign on the dotted line. Don’t worry about the details.

Scenario 2: Doctor’s Office
Doctor: Siéntese aquí, por favor. Abra la boca. Respire profundamente.
Paciente: ¿Descanse esta semana?
Doctor: Sí, descanse y tome esta medicina. No haga ejercicio.

Formal vs. Informal Commands: Quick Comparison

SituationInformal (Tú)Formal (Usted)
FriendHabla más despacio.(Not appropriate)
Stranger on street(Not appropriate)Hable más despacio.
Your childCome tu comida.(Not appropriate)
Restaurant server(Not appropriate)Traiga la cuenta, por favor.
Business colleague(Depends on relationship)Envíe el reporte.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  1. Using tú commands formally: Always use usted/ustedes with strangers and professionals.
  2. Wrong pronoun placement: “Dígame” not “Me diga” for affirmative commands.
  3. Forgetting accent marks: “Dé” (give) vs “de” (of/preposition).
  4. Mixing up irregulars: “Vaya” not “Vé” for formal commands.
  5. Using subject pronouns: Don’t say “Usted hable” – just “Hable.”

Quick Reference Chart

SituationRuleExample
Usted AffirmativeOpposite ending + no subjectHable, Coma, Viva
Ustedes AffirmativeAdd -n to usted formHablen, Coman, Vivan
Negative CommandsSame form + “no”No hable, No coman
Pronouns AffirmativeAttach to endDígame, Cómprelo
Pronouns NegativePlace before verbNo me diga, No lo compre
IrregularsMemorize common verbsDé, Esté, Vaya, Sepa, Sea

Practice Exercise: Convert to Formal Commands

Convert these sentences to formal commands:

  1. (Affirmative) Speak English here. → ________ inglés aquí.
  2. (Negative) Don’t wait for me. → No ________ por mí.
  3. (Affirmative) Give me the book. → ________ el libro.
  4. (Negative) Don’t be late. → No ________ tarde.

Answers:

  1. Hable inglés aquí.
  2. No espere por mí.
  3. Déme el libro.
  4. No llegue tarde.

💻 Practice Conjugations Live! Use our Spanish Verb Conjugation Tool to practice formal commands with any verb.

Ready to Communicate Formally?

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